Don't let the opinions of others define who you are. Consider them, make adjustments if necessary, and then be you. - Garrison Wynn
Your perspective should be your guiding force, and the opinions of others?
They should hold little weight, especially when they’re coming from people who don’t know you well. Everyone has their viewpoint, but it’s an opinion, not a fact. Of course, the views of those close to you, like family or lifelong friends, matter more. But beyond that, in social circles or among acquaintances, those opinions often reflect surface-level judgments that can distort how you see yourself.
True connections and relationships based on mutual respect, time, and shared values are rare, but they’re also the most valuable. They push you to grow, challenge your limits, and bring out your best. Unfortunately, such connections aren’t something you encounter often, and when you do, they’re worth cherishing.
So, what's the takeaway?
Be true to who you are. Surround yourself with people who understand and appreciate your essence, not those who are too focused on validation or fitting into a mold. If you’re constantly looking for approval from others, especially those who aren’t sure of themselves, it can leave you feeling lost, inadequate, or disconnected from your true purpose.
It’s easy to get caught up in the desire for approval or the pressure to conform, but it’s ultimately a fruitless pursuit. If you don’t need validation, don’t chase it. Of course, when it comes to decisions that affect others or when collaboration is involved, consider their input. But in the end, trust your judgment.
Confidence in your own choices, a calm approach to feedback, and clear communication are all key. Stay emotionally detached from the noise and remember this: outsiders don’t have a right to judge your path. You get to choose how to live your life. Spend your energy on what matters, not on catering to everyone else's expectations.
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